When looking back on your life, would the child version of yourself be proud? Are you living the life you wanted to when you dreamed as a kid, or have you settled?
Is the 5, 10, 15 year you going to be proud of what you did from now to that time?
The time is going to happen whether we like it or not, will you reach your goals and live the life you want?
Focus on consulting yourself without outside thought, opinion, emotions, and expectations and see what you feel.