I’ve written previously about how no one is coming to save you. I’ve written previously about how important it is to take ownership of your life and admit your mistakes. I’ve written previously about the importance of taking ownership when things go wrong, while thanking others when things go right. I’ve written previously about howContinue reading “Right or wrong, it doesn’t matter”
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Reflection
How you view the world is a reflection of how you view yourself If you’re hurting, the world is hurting If you’re grateful, the world is magical If you’re selfish, everyone else’s gain is taking away from you If your relationship with yourself is damaging, everyone around you is out to get you If youContinue reading “Reflection”
The easy path to addiction and how to avoid it
Have you ever seen the psychology study called the Marshmallow test? It’s hilarious to watch. Researchers place a few kids in a room with one single marshmallow on a plate and tell them that if they don’t eat that marshmallow, the kids will get another. Solid deal, right? Being the armchair quarterback in the situation,Continue reading “The easy path to addiction and how to avoid it”
Pessimism vs. Optimism
Pessimism sounds smart, but it’s the easy route in my opinion. Being pessimistic makes it seem like you are well-versed in subjects, you have done your research, and you have some authority on the matter. I think it is needed in how you view the world in certain circumstances, but I think it’s ultimately lazy.Continue reading “Pessimism vs. Optimism”
Start with one day and start small
If you’re trying to make some new changes, please stop telling yourself, “I’ll never eat sugar again.” “I’ll never drink again.” “I’m going to workout the rest of my life every day.” “I’m going to read one book every week for the rest of the year.” STOP. These life-changing, permanent goals make you feel greatContinue reading “Start with one day and start small”
Get out of your own way
Usually we are the only one in our way when we’re trying to get to a new destination. Who is telling you that you are not allowed to have a good day? When you think about losing weight, who is the one telling you that it is impossible, or that you are not strong enoughContinue reading “Get out of your own way”
The Fox and the (Sour) Grapes
This story below is from the collection Aesop’s Fables (source): A Fox one day spied a beautiful bunch of ripe grapes hanging from a vine trained along the branches of a tree. The grapes seemed ready to burst with juice, and the Fox’s mouth watered as he gazed longingly at them. The bunch hung fromContinue reading “The Fox and the (Sour) Grapes”
Hate
Tell me what You hate and you tell me who You are Because that what hurts the most, is what left the deepest scar What brings us disgust from the actions of the few Is what brings the same disgust when the mirror is what we view “How could they?” we question, ponder, and roarContinue reading “Hate”
The Daily Minimum: the most important tool for personal development
In this video you’ll find what a daily minimum is, why it’s important, how to make one, and more. View Video Here This video is from my course “Breaking The Cycle.” A course designed to help you break poor habits and start new ones.
Free resource: Financial Planning & Budget worksheet
Use this free resource to plan out where you’re money is going to go next year and keep track of how you’re progressing towards your financial goals each month. Video walkthrough – View Here Financial Planning worksheet – View Here